Go figure, I’d forgotten about it 😛
Yes, I have Fibromyalgia, yes it’s a real disease, yes it sucks, yes it is especially obnoxious around finals time.
The following is a letter to the media from the founder of the Fibrohugs website:
Friday, May 12, is Fibromyalgia Awareness Day. The theme this year is
very appropriate: “But You Don’t Look Sick” — The Invisible Pain of
Unfortunately, that is what so many of us hear… that we don’t look
sick, we are told to learn to live with it, we are overly emotional, or
that aches and pains are just part of growing old… try telling that to
a twelve year old that has just been diagnosed after months of being
told it was all in his head! Until you walk in our shoes, feel our pain,
and the pain of our families as they try to understand and comfort us,
you will never fully understand what we live with every day.
The Awareness Day is to promote education and to inform the many people
who may have symptoms that have not been diagnosed, that they need to
gather information and see that they are seeing the right doctor to help
them. It is also to make the public aware that this disease does
exist, and that we and our families exist in a world unknown to many others.
Fibromyalgia syndrome is not easily diagnosed, and compounded with
chronic fatigue syndrome, migraine headaches, TMJ, carpal tunnel, you have
a person who has pain that affects the muscles, ligaments, and tendons
all over their body, with known “trigger points”, where the pain may be
the most intense. Most of us have sleep disorders, numbness and
tingling in our hands and feet, and have trouble concentrating (often
referred to as fibro-fog) or have short-term memory loss, and experience
severe pain that “travels” to other parts of the body, and it is very often
adversely affected by weather conditions, sleep patterns, activity
levels, and stress.
It is very important that anyone that has fibromyalgia stay
active–walk, swim, exercise, and stretch the muscles, ligaments, and tendons
involved. We have to get plenty of “restorative” sleep, and avoid
stressful situations… we haven’t found a way to control the weather yet…
it’s going to rain somewhere every day. I walk about two miles every
day, and stay active out of necessity… I have to work extra jobs, even
though I am “retired” from the state.
Since first diagnosed, I made a vow to myself that I may have
fibromyalgia, but fibromyalgia will never have me. It has helped me cope, and
has given me the incentive to keep on being a responsible, productive
parent, wife, daughter, friend, and worker. Please remember that just
because I have been able to do this, that I am lucky…not everyone is.
Too many of us suffer unbearable pain that is disabling and
Each person is an individual, and each of us with fibromyalgia can
probably tell you a different story about how we developed it (mine came
from traumatic stress), others will say that theirs may have come from an
accident, an operation, physical or mental stress, or they simply
developed it over time…. there is really no definitive cause, and there’s
no cure. Simply put, Fibromyalgia won’t kill you, but you will die
An estimated ten million people in the United States have been
diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. It doesn’t favor anyone… it affects men, women,
and children of all ages and races. We live every day, hoping for a
cure, praying our families can cope with having to help us if we need
them. If you know someone who has this disease, please try to understand
they need your support, that you are trying to understand, and most
importantly, let them know that you care.
For more information you can visit http://www.fibrohugs.com